* SINGLE: 

Minsan ayos lang maging SINGLE kase free na free ka gawin kung ano ang gusto mo o kaya makakapunta ka kung saan mo gusto pumunta pero kung minsan,. lalo na’t malamig ang hangin o kya maganda ung view, magwiwish ka na sana may yumayakap sa’yo, hahalikan ka sa noo at tititignan ka ng parang ikaw na ata ang pinakamagandang babae sa buong mundo.

*kaya heto, susubukan ko bilangin ang mga dahilan kung bakit single pa tayo. Gaano katagal na ba kayo walang nagiging boyfriend/girlfriend? tingnan natin..

1) MASYADONG INDEPENDENT - baka naman masyado mo napoproject na kaya mongmabuhay ng wala silang lahat, ayan tuloy parang hindi nila maramdaman na kailangan mo rin sila kaya dun na lang sila sa taong tingin nila ay magkakaron sila ng silbi.

2) MATAAS ANG STANDARDS- siguro hindi na natanggal sa isip mo ung pangarap mo nung bata ka pa. aba, kelangan mo na gumising sa katotohanan na walang ideal guy. ok cge, kung makita mo nga ung hinahanap mo na gwapong matalino na mayaman na mabait pero nung nakasama mo naman eh nakita mo hindi pala siya madalas maligo, mahiyain mag-toothbrushkaya naman sobrang bad breath niya sa umaga, puro barya ang mga hita at binti o kaya naman daig pa ang tambucho sa lakas manigarilyo, may nakausli na “pang labing-isang” daliri sa kamay at NAKAPANGINGILABOT NA BALAT dahil madami siyang AN-AN SA kanyang LIKOD NA PARA BANG MAPA NG CEBU… oh eh di turn-off ka na? kung lahat ng tao ay katulad mo na mataas ang standards, malamang wala ng magboboyfriend at maggirlfriend ngaun puro friends na lang.

3) UBOD KA NG KASUNGITAN - maski naman kahit sino hindi masarap lapitan at kausapin ang taong mukhang nangangain ng tao tapos liligawan pa? dapat kc kahit konti maging approachable ka naman para kahit na hindi ka kagandahan, madidiskubre niya na masarap ka palang kausap at masaya kang kasama. (^^,)

4) MASAMA ANG UGALI - kung papipiliin ako kung sa masungit o sa masama ang ugali… dun na ko sa masungit! ang masungit kc, hindi likas na itim ang budhi nyan, may taglay na istorya sa likod ng simangot niya. sabihan mo lang yan ng ‘peek-a-boo’BAKA ngitian ka na. ibang istorya na kase ang masama ang ugali dahil mula pa yang ugali na yan sa kaibuturan ng kanyang mga balunbalunan. sa una mabait, pero madidiskubre mo na parang trapo ang tao kung tratuhin nito. tsk tsk tsk. pero hindi pa naman huli ang lahat kung kaya mo pa magbago, bigyan mo ng pagkakataon ang sarili mo magbago. magdasal ka kay lord ng mataimtim huh?? *hahahaha*

5) NAGKUKULONG SA BAHAY - walang makaka-appreciate sa panloob o panlabas na beauty mo kung nagkukulong ka lang sa bahay. ok nanjan nga ang nanay mo para sabihin na maganda ka pero im sure umay na umay na rin yan sa pagmumukha mo kaya mas maigi kung lumabas ka.. pagkagaling sa office, pwede ka magmall o kya gumimik kasama mga officemates mo, o kaya naman sumali sa mga organization sa simbahan or sa neighborhood.

6) MUKHA KANG LOSYANG - ito ang kadalasang krimen ng mga single. Hindi ka nagbibigay ng panahon para ayusin ang sarili physically. at bakit pa nga ba e wala ka naman dahilan para mag-ayos, diba? MALI !!! Dapat nga lalo ka mag-ayos para makita ang marketability mo. hindi krimen ang maging vain kahit konti. did u know na ang ratio ng lalaki sa babae ay 4:1? kaya lola, magsimula ka na mag-ayos at baka yung crush mo ay maagaw pa ng mga intrimitida sa paligid mo.

7)MASYADONG MAGALING - medyo sensitive itong topic na ito dahil nasasagasaan na ang male ego dito eh. oo, may ibang lalake na nabuburaot dahil mas magaling at mas marunong ang babae sa kanila. hindi na natin ito problema dahil malamang insecurity nila ang bumubulong sa kanila pero minsan kase hindi na makatarungan na laging nai-inferior ang lalake. kailangan maramdaman din nila sa iyo na hindi mo sila ia-under the saya if maging girlfriend ka nila. hindi ko rin sinasabi na i-compromise mo ang talents mo, ano bang magagawa ko kung likas na talentadong bata ka pero ang tamang gawin ay wag naman ipagdukdukan na sobrang galing mong tao. wag na wag mong kalimutan na may 2 klaseng yabang dito sa mundo. wag kang mang-intimidate kung ayaw mong ma-intimidate.

8) SOBRANG BUSY - alam mo ba ung kantang ‘Narda’? ganyan ang mangyayari sa iyo, hanggang kanta na lang ang aabutin ng nagkakagusto sayo dahil maski pagpa-pluck ng kilay mo wala kang time.

9) DALA ANG BIGAT NG KAHAPON - may kasabihan nga, “how can u look forward when u keep looking back?”walang mangyayari sa love life mo kung dala mo pa ang kabiguan na dinulot ng nakaraan mo. walang sense ang magpakabitter dahil in the end, lalo ka lang papanget. panget na nga, bitter pa! tsaka wag kang matakot masaktan kung gusto mo magmahal muli. laging kaakibat ng love ang pain dahil hindi ka masasaktan kung hindi ka nagmahal. at isa pa, wag ka ring matakot na kunin ang pagkakataon kung nandiyan na sa harap mo. pano mo malalaman na masarap ang chocolate kung hindi mo titikman? (^^,)

10) MASYADONG-MASYADO!! - masyadong maganda, masyadong matalino, masyadong talented at masyadong mayaman. minsan ito ang mga nagiging factor kung bakit walang gustong manligaw sayo. pero hindi mo naman ito kasalanan diba? katulad din ito ng scenario sa #7. siguro mas maigi kung HUMBLE KA LANG wag mayabang, at imbis na maging hambog, share na lang the blessing. hindi ka lang maganda / matalino / talented / mayaman / mabait pa!! im sure lahat mahuhumaling sayo.

11) IMBORNAL ANG BUNGANGA MO: naku kalimitang problema ito ng mga TAKLESANG TAO at ng mga masyado nang confident sa sarili nila. Maganda ka nga, mayaman, mabait naman, sweet naman, maganda naman pumorma, Pero pag nagsalita daig pa ung barker ng mga pedicab sa CUBAO eh! Ang lakas mong magmura!! Pinaglihi ka ba sa Nagmumurang Kamatis? Mga words mo pa ang lulupit e… memorize mo na lahat ng mga bastos na salitang Pilipino at mga murang pinoy. Shempre palengkera dating mo nyan dba? Naku lalo pa kung mapanira ka, lalong wag! Matatakot lahat makipag-friends sayo, kahit babae!! Hahaha! Bawas mura kapatid! Instead of saying: Bwaka ng Ina, P*tang ina, P*king Ina!! Say: flowers, candies, rainbows, sheeps, clouds, butterflies and. . .

PUT A LITTLE MORE!! O dba? bumabango na “bibig” nya, yeah! di na “bunganga”.

MINSAN NAMAN SA MGA BABAE:

12) TOO MANY BOYS: Minsan nai-intimidate din ang mga guys pag masyado maraming boys ang nakabakod sa girl. Wala ka ngang boyfriend, pero lagi mo naman prino-project na ang daming lumalandi sayo (na pawang mga superficial lang naman at mukhang walang potential na magbigay ng TRUE LOVE sayo). Pag ganyan palagi ang aura at drama mo, most likely, uurong yung mga boys na may HONEST INTENTIONS sayo at kaya kang mahalin ng todo, kasi natatakot sila na baka ikaw ang di kayang magmahal ng totoo. Alam kasi ng mga boys yan… na kahit kayo na (nakapili ka na ng BF mo), di pa din mawawala ang mga “boys” na nakapaligid sayo…

13) ONE OF THE BOYS: Ayan, isa pang problema ng mga gurls... kadalasan, dahil sa sobra namang close sa mga boys, nagmumukha na silang one of the boys, na kung saan sayo shi-ni-share ng mga boys ang kilig at iyak moments nila with other gurls. Ouch! Masakit yun, lalo na pag type mo yung friend mo na guy. Ingat-ingat mahirap kasi pag masyado kang close sa mga boys kasi dumadating ang point na ang tingin nila sayo… MAS MASARAP KANG KAIBIGAN… aray!!! isa pa, parang lalaki na din ang tingin nila sayo… mapapansin mo yan, kapag nag-skirt or nag-spaghetti strap ka, tapos inaasar ka na ng mga friend mo na boys for being “gurl na gurl”. kasi ang boys, pag nakakita ng gurl in a sexy dress (tumatahimik yan, at may parang kumukulo sa loob nila)… so pag tinawanan ka, naku, sign na un…

14) STRICT ANG PARENTS: uhmmm… may two words kami dyan: GOOD LUCK!

at eto ang pinakamatindi sa lahat:

15) WALA SA GUHIT NG PALAD MO ANG MAGKA-BOYFRIEND OR GIRLFRIEND!! - shiyet ang saklap naman nito kung ganun nga!! hindi porke hindi ka na magkakaroon ng kasintahan ay loser ka na. malamang may nakalaan na plano sayo si GOD kaya gusto niya na wala kang BOYFRIEND OR GIRLFRIEND siguro kaya wala kang kasintahan dahil kailangan ang full attention mo sa pagtulong sa pagtaguyod ng pamilya mo, baka yayaman ka at magiging tagapagmana mo mga pamangkin mo, (EH BAKIT PAMANGKIN PA???! HAHAHA!!) baka kailangan ang full time and support mo sa organization mo..maraming dahilan eh pero nakakasiguro naman ako na walang bagay na nangyayari sayo na hindi kagustuhan ng nasa itaas. laging may greater purpose kung bakit nangyayari ang nangyayari. kaya kung halimbawang may darating, wag na pakyeme. kung hindi mo type ang lalapit sayo, let it go gracefully dahil mahirap na at baka balikan ka ng karma. kung nandyan na, gawin na lang ang best para mag-stay siya sa buhay mo at nang hindi ka na nagtataka pa kung bakit SINGLE ka. see what i’m sayin??

hmmmmm…. mukhang BITIN ka pa eh!! DAGDAGAN NATIN?? (^^,) hehe cge…

(P.S.) = “PAHABOL-SULAT”

O ETO PA…

Destiny Addict

Ito yung mga taong hinihintay na gumawa ang tadhana ng paraan para pagtagpuin sila ng kanilang mga “soulmates” orwhatever. Ayaw kumilos o kung ano pa dahil naniniwala siya na kung sinoman ‘yung talagang para sa kanya ay darating na lang bigla saparaang maaaring hindi niya inaasahan– wow!! parang Serendipity.

Laging maririnig na nagsasabing: “Darating din yan. ‘Wag kasing hanapin.“

Perfectionist

Simulanung magkamalay ang taong ito, nakalista na ang mga bagay na gusto niyasa kanyang magiging boypren/girlpren. Kapag may nakilala siya atnakitang madumi ang kuko, magkadikit ang kilay, may butas sa ngipin, oparang penguin maglakad, wala na. Turn off na ‘yun para sa kanya.

Laging maririnig na nagsasabing:“Ok na siya e. Kaya lang gusto ko ‘yung ganito…”

Busy Bee

Pasensyana sila pero masyado kang maraming inaasikaso tulad ng libro, bolpen,papel at calculator. Umaalis ka ng 6 am sa bahay at umuuwi ng 7 ng gabi‘pag weekdays. Pagdating mo sa bahay, gagawa lang ng homework atmatutulog na. Masaya ka nang makanood ng TV ‘pag Sabado (at gumawa ulitng homework). Sapat na sa’yo ang kumain sa labas kasama ang pamilya‘pag Linggo (at gumawa pa rin ng homework).

Laging maririnig na nagsasabing: “Sorry, wala akong time sa ganyan e,”

Friend Forever Version 1

Kunwarika pa dyan. Alam mo namang gusto mo talaga ‘yang best friend o specialfriend mo pero hindi mo lang sinasabi at pinapadama dahil ayaw mongmasira ang pagkakaibigan niyong dalawa. ‘Yung tipong ‘pag may kasamangiba ‘yung gusto mo, kunwari ka pang masaya ka para sa kanya pero satotoo lang, gusto mo na malusaw na parang ice caps dahil sa Global Warming.

Laging maririnig na nagsasabing: “I’m so happy for you” o “Sayang naman ‘yung pinagsamahan namin e.”

Friend Forever Version 2

Walatayong magagawa pero talagang malapit ka lang sa kabilangkasarian–pero bilang kaibigan lang. One-of-the-boys or ladies’ man.Hindi ka naman homo o bi pero sadyang kaibigan lang ang tingin mo samga taong hindi mo kapareho ng chromosomes. Masaya ka nangnakaka-hang-out lang sila, nakakakwentuhan, niyayakap nang walanghalong malisya.

)Laging maririnig na nagsasabing: “May inuman ba mamaya?” kung babae o “Hatid ko ba kayo mamaya?” kung lalaki

Born to be One

Single-blessed ka at walaka nang magagawa kung ganun. :) Nilikha ka siguro para maging mag-isa(pero syempre may pamilya at kaibigan ka naman, duh!) hanggang tumandaka na at ipadala sa Home for the Aged. Marami akong kakilalang mukhangganito ang patutunguhan at hindi naman sila mga pangit o abnoy talaga.Minsan lang, masyado silang masungit.

Laging maririnig na nagsasabing: “Mag-isa ako.”

Happy-go-lucky

‘Eto‘yung taong masaya na sa trip-trip lang at kung anu-anong mgahappenings. Kahit sino na lang basta no strings attached. For fun langat walang seryosohan please. Personally, ayoko nung mga ganito. Umaapawlang siguro ‘yung mga taong ganito sa “L.” Magbuhos ka nalang ng malamigna tubig sa iyong buong katawan at solb na ‘yan.

Laging maririnig na nagsasabing: “I’m not ready to commit e, but I really like you.”

Wrong Time

‘Etonaman ‘yung mga laging idinadahilan na masyado pa silang bata o kayamasyado na silang matanda. May mga tao raw na ganyan, ‘yung pakiramdamnila laging may tamang panahon para sa pag-ibig. Pero ang labo langkasi tuwing may pagkakataon naman, lagi nilang naiisip na malingpanahon pa iyon. Oo, wrong timing lagi ang pag-ibig para sa kanila kasimadalas sumasakto kung kelan meron silang board exams, problema sapamilya, o long test kinabukasan. :)

Laging maririnig na nagsasabing: “We had the right love at the wrong time…”

Parent Trap

Ayawni mama o ni papa na magkaboypren/girlpren ang kanilang unica hija/unico hijokahit na 22 years old na ito at kumikita na ng sarili niyang pera.Kailangan daw magkaron ka muna ng isang strand ng puting buhok bago maymakadalaw sa’yo sa bahay. O kaya, baka ikaw ‘yung may problema dahilnatatakot ka sa iisipin ng mga magulang mo tungkol sa taong iyonggusto. Baka kasi sabihin nila na masyado siyangbansot/matangkad/baboy/payatot para sa’yo.

Laging maririnig na nagsasabing: “Baka magalit si Papa”

Trauma

Dahilsa dami ng mga heartbreak na iyong nadama at emo songs na napakingganmo na noon, sinumpa mo nang hindi ka magmamahal. Ayaw mo na. Sawa ka nasa paglalaslas ng pulso, este, sa paglalagay ng mga madramang statmessage sa YM at pag-iyak ng balde-baldeng luha. Awwwww… pwede rin namang masyado kang insecure sa sarili mo kaya hindi kamakapagmatapang na magventure into some love quest.

Laging maririnig na nagsasabing: “Pagod na pagod na akong masaktan!” *hikbi*

Your Ex-Lover is (NOT) Dead

Yikes!!Mahal pa rin niya ang kanyang EX at hindi siya maka-get-over saperson. wtf??! Pilit pa rin inaalala ang mga tawanan, iyakan, at PDAmoments nilang dalawa kahit ‘yung EX niya ay nakikipag-mabutihan na sa ibang babae/lalaki. Sasabihin mong nakapag-move on ka napero pag nagkwentuhan tungkol sa pag-ibig, tandadadaaaaan! Siya nanaman naiisip mo.

Laging maririnig na nagsasabing: “I’m over him/her…” “tapos iiyak bigla :))”

Ayaw

Dalawana namang kaso ito. Una, ayaw mo lang talaga magka-”someone”. Hindi kona pipilitin ungkatin ‘yung dahilan pero may mga pagkakataon langtalaga na ayaw mo. Ikalawa naman, baka…ayaw kasi sa’yo nung gusto mo N’ that’s the shittiest thing ever! Pwedeng ayaw niya sa’yo dahil maygirlpren/boypren siya, busy siya or whatever, o kaya ayaw ka lang niyatalaga at wala ka nang magagawa kung ganun. =(

Laging maririnig na nagsasabing: “Ayoko pa magkaboypren/girlpren e.” o “Hindi naman niya ko gusto.“

The Top 10 Qualities Women Find Attractive in a Man.

If you want to attract a woman then you have to know what women find attractive in a man and see if you can't incorporate some of those qualities into your own life.

Most women will agree that there are certain things that they find attractive in men and here are the top 10 qualities that will have women looking your way and being thankful they found you.

1. Positive Attitude About Life

If the guys outlook on life is doom and gloom then he's not a very fun guy to be around. Women want a guy who is going to uplift them and not bring them down.

2. Sense of Humor

If you can make a girl laugh then you have it made. Laughter makes you feel good and when someone else can constantly make you laugh then they are someone who essentially makes you feel good.

3. Compassion Towards Others

Women tend to be compassionate by nature and when a man shows compassion for other people and everything around them they relate to the man on a level deeper than if the man had no compassion. Compassion and kindness towards others is a great quality to have and makes you look like a great human being to be involved with and to have as part of their lives.

4. Confidence in Yourself and Your Abilities

Men who are confident come across as a take charge kind of guy. They know what they are doing and they know that they are good at it. As much as it may be old fashioned, a woman wants a guy who can make decisions and take charge sometimes. If you don't have confidence then chances are you will not attract many women.

5. Aspirations and Goals For The Future

If you are someone who has goals and aspirations in life then you are a huge catch and extremely attractive. When you are moving towards something in life it shows that your life is going to be exciting and constantly changing. If you are sitting on your mothers couch content with your job and have no plans on ever going anywhere else in life then you appear very boring and stagnant.

6. Adventurous Side That Stands Out

Life is meant to get out there and live! If you have a sense of adventure and are excited about what life has to offer then chances are you will make women excited about you.

7. Strong Ties With Family and Friends

If you have a network of people that you care about then women will peg you as a guy who has strong family values. While not all women are looking to start a family, most women are looking for a guy who values family and closeness.

8. Honesty

Women can sense a liar from a mile a while. You may be trying to conceal the fact that you are lying but there will always be something in your voice or body language that will give it away. Women want an honest man - this includes being honest to her and being honest to yourself.

9. Ability to Communicate

If you are a one word guy then you need to work on your communication skills if you want women to find you really attractive. Women want to be able to talk about their day and feelings with their man without feeling like it's a one sided conversation. But more importantly women want to know what their men are really thinking and improper communication can relate a message that you are not trying to relate which can be hard to talk your way out of, especially if you are not a good communicator. So work on your communication skills!

10. Ability to Show Love

Even though I have this as number ten it may be number one in most women's books. Love is what makes the world go around and everyone including women like to be loved. If you have the ability to show a woman that you care about her through your actions, body language, and words then you are the kind of guy that most women need in their lives. Don't be afraid to exclaim your love!

A word of caution about these top ten qualities. While women may be looking for a guy with these qualities they are not looking for a guy with these qualities in excess. So if your goals take up your whole life and you have no room for family then it becomes an unattractive quality. And if you show love to the point of obsession then you can become a creepy guy who no woman will want to have around.

So make sure you have a balance in your life and you will be fine.

Mistakes Women Make In Their Relationships.

You may not realize it, but you are probably making some very dangerous mistakes in your relationship right now; and those mistakes are compromising the success and longevity of the relationship. Thus, if you want to keep your man and want to have a successful relationship with him, you should carefully assess whether or not you (like most women) are constantly making these 33 mistakes with men; and if you are, you should do something about it now!

See if you can identify with these dreadful mistakes, and if you can, you must make some DRASTIC changes...

33. Arguing With Him To Make Things Interesting - When you get bored... do you argue with him? Most women do, and men get sick and tired of it. If he is NOT stimulating enough for you, talk to him about it and work through a solution that doesn't leave both of you hurt in the end.

32. Insulting His Family as a Joke - You may not realize it, but laughing about certain things his family does is generally insulting to a guy. It's insulting because he cares about those people. Just like he wouldn't expect you to start making fun of him, he doesn't expect you to make fun of his family either. Even if he laughs alongside you, he is likely considering the fact that you are insulting his family to him, and won't appreciate it.

31. Pretending To Like Things You Actually Hate- If you don't like something, but pretend to, just to show him you care, or prove you have something in common with him etc... the only thing that will result is him thinking you just aren't honest with yourself, and thus aren't honest with him. Guys can tell when you don't like something, and prefer you stand up for yourself, rather than act fake or be something you aren't.

30. Talking About Change Without Action -If you are constantly talking about how you are going to change X thing or Y thing about your life or your-self but never really do; it will irritate a man. He will think that you always want to stay the same and simply don't want to move forward in life. But guess what? He will move forward; away from you!

29. Insulting Your Own Family - We all have things we don't like about our family members, but if that's all you ever say about them, your man won't think too highly of you. He will think that you simply don't like anyone in general if you can't even say one positive thing about your family....which in turn makes him question the point of even being with you, because clearly, you are incapable of seeing the good in anyone you've been around for a long period of time.

28. Obsessing Over Him - He finds it creepy. You keep archives of him and every piece of dirt you can get on him, you do....even without his permission. You snoop through all his stuff, ask him to keep "keep-sake" items always, and are constantly clinging to everything related to him, so much so that you are ignoring other areas of your life. It's not attractive; it's just a guy's worst nightmare.

27. Doing What He Says Half Heartedly-If you take a guy's advice, don't take it half heartedly. He will see that you clearly aren't interested in the thing he suggested, and will find it offensive. He will think that you are simply only doing it to please him then, instead of doing it to improve your own life. Remember that if a guy gives you advice, it's to help YOU, not him (i.e. he doesn't need to be pleased in the end with that specific thing).

26. Doing The Same Mistakes Over and Over Again -He asked you not to do X thing, but you are still doing X thing. 5 times now he has discussed with you WHY he doesn't like it when you do X thing, and now you find him getting upset when you do X thing. So then you apologize and promise never to do it again, only to (you guessed it!), do it again! Guys hate this, and after some time will avoid you, because your actions don't match up with your words.

25. Lying About Things That Matter - A lot of guys are alright with a history, if you have one, as everyone has some history to them. If you have some baggage, guys can handle it too, as long as you move forward from it. HOWEVER, if you lie about your past (especially past relationships), or things that matter in general; and he finds out later otherwise, he will lose trust in you.

24. Telling A Guy You Want Him, While Talking To Many/Other Guys Simultaneously - There is this one guy you really like, you are chasing him, but he isn't budging. He isn't agreeing to date you or anything else. So you start talking to other guys, chatting with them. BUT, the original guy who you STILL like can find this out, and even if he didn't, he would consider this to be two timing. He will think that you don't mean what you say when it comes to personal matters with him, if he notices that you are saying you want him; yet you are seeing other men EMOTIONALLY....because the first guy isn't committing.

23. Disrespecting Yourself - A man knows when you don't respect yourself. Some will accept you as you are because they feel sorry for you, or they want to help you; whereas others accept you that way so that they can control you better. Either way, it's not a turn on even to the men who think they can control you if you don't clearly draw boundaries for yourself or respect yourself.

22. Centralizing Around Your Problems 24/7 - Is your entire life a mess, and the only things that happen to you are bad things? Are you always in trouble somewhere, and seem to centralize around your problems all the time? News flash: it's unattractive and if you can't stand being in it, why do you drag your man into it? He hates it too, and would like to hear something positive come out of your mouth.

21. Displaying Low Self Esteem, Yet Expecting A Guy To Lift You Up - You hate your legs, because they aren't proportionate to your body. You hate your muffin top; you don't like your nose, ears, hair etc... You think you are ugly, unattractive; no one wants you etc... All of these lovely things are told to your partner, and then you EXPECT him to compliment you and boost your self esteem. BUT, even when he does tell you that you are pretty, you turn around and still say the above things anyway. How do you think that makes him feel?

20. Not Getting Your Priorities Straight -You have a bill to pay, but instead you go and decide to buy a new shirt and a pair of pants. Now you're broke, so you go to him asking him to help you. It's a little thing called: getting your priorities straight. If he can see that you clearly don't know what's truly important and are always giving useless things importance, he will think that you are simply immature and don't want to be responsible.

19. Trying To Force Him Into Commitment -You want him to date you... maybe even marry you... so you talk about it ALL THE TIME. You demand reasons as to why he doesn't want to, because you don't understand. But this pushes him away, because he feels like you are simply trying to tell him what to do, and he doesn't want to be locked into anything or forced to do something.

18. Using His Secrets Against Him - He confides in you about something. It may not be a great thing, and may have even been a mistake he made in the past that he is already ashamed of. BUT, you use this as leverage in a fight to tear him down further, but this will make him utterly believe you cannot be trusted.

17. Gossiping About Others All The Time -Your friends, your neighbor, your boss, heck... anyone you can talk about you do. He doesn't want to hear about other people all the time, and he sure doesn't want to learn how judgmental you are of every little thing about people you see. He wants to hear about improvements in your life, how you are doing in general, what's truly exciting. To him, random strangers are not exciting, especially when told from this perspective.

16. Threatening To Harm Yourself - You get into a bad mood; so you start thinking along extremely negative lines, but you throw him into the mix. Suddenly you are telling him how you don't really want to live or how you want to die etc... He will take this seriously, and will not think it is O.K. for you to be using harmful suggestions as a means to get his attention or make him do something for you.

15. Calling Him Names When You Know He's A Good Guy -You are angry because YOU did something wrong or something isn't going your way. More so, he isn't acting how you want him to, because you've probably pushed him away a lot already. So you start name calling, and acting rude. Remember he's a good guy; so he's probably done so very good things for you. He won't take this lightly and will think you don't respect him.

14. Asking The Same Questions Over and Over Again -He isn't doing something you want him to do. Maybe he isn't meeting you, or talking to you for some time... so you want to know why. BUT, he already explained why. Unsatisfied with his answer, as though you consider it to be invalid or a lie, you ask again and again regardless for the reasons and answers. He will think that you simply don't want to understand and after that point will literally stop talking about that subject.

13. Being Annoying Because You Think He's Cute When He's Annoyed -There are some people who find others attractive when they are irritated or mad. If you are one of these, be warned that the other person may not appreciate it as much as you do, because THEY are the ones who have to be in the irritated state, while you do things to entice it. They will find you to be immature and will start disliking you, because you constantly cross boundaries they asked you not to cross.

12. Being Dirty At The Wrong Times - Men, like women, get into moods, especially when it comes to intimacy. Once again, men; like women; aren't always in the mood. BUT if you are, and you are pressing that concern over and over again although he already turned away from that topic; he will think that you don't respect his right to have a decision or care, and that you are utterly selfish. Likewise, if you are being dirty in a moment that he wants you to be proper; he will lose respect for you.

11. Begging Him To Do Things -If you have to get to the point where you have to beg, he'll likely say no, because now he feels like you simply want to be recalcitrant. When you beg a man to do something, you appear to be desperate... and frankly... out of your mind, depending on what you are asking for. When done constantly, he will feel like you are just too needy beyond what he can provide and will withdraw.

10. Doing Things He Hates Regardless of What He Says -If you want to be in his presence and have a man LIKE you, you should understand that this also requires a mutual effort. If he is asking you NOT to do certain things that he hates, but you do them anyway, he is clearly going to feel like you have an "It's all about me" attitude and that you truly don't regard anything he says as being important.

9. Living in the Past All The Time -You had a boyfriend who hurt you, so you continuously talk about it. A year passes, and you are still talking about how hurt you are. He is going to think that you are still not over that ex. This applies to all kinds of things from your past, of course, but generally if you feel hurt by your past and are always using it as an excuse for your behavior in the present, or as a reason to justify your poor choices or bad behavior is not going to sit well with a guy. He wants to see you progress, not sit in the past and whine about how bad it was.

8. Taking His Criticisms Harshly... ESPECIALLY If You Asked For It - Any time you are around someone for a long period, they are going to criticize you. BUT, he is probably doing such because you asked for it, or because he cares about you. However, you, on the other hand, take the criticisms harshly and act as if he is insulting you. This will really make him think that you are emotionally unstable and aren't mature, because you can't even take criticism even if you ask for it.

7. Making Unhealthy Decisions All The Time...Then Complaining About It -You eat a bag of chips, drink a can of pop... then munch on some pizza. NOW, he doesn't mind you eating, even junk food; but what he minds is when you complain about it and when he sees you are not as healthy as you could be. He will find it to be disgusting after a point of time, and will think that you are unhealthy by choice. It is not attractive to anyone when you don't take care of your body.

6. Being Lazy With Your Life - You don't really finish anything you start, and are too lazy to keep things organized or keep your life intact. You expect others to do things for you all the time, but he doesn't want to be your maid. Men get sick and tired of cleaning up after the messes you leave, whether that's with the emotional problems you have, relationships with others, or your personal physical well being.

5. Always Acting As If You Don't Know What to Do - When something goes wrong, your first response is to say "I don't know what to do!"... and then you might ask him to tell you what to do or direct you. BUT, this kind of reaction to things in your life only tells a man that you simply don't want to use any common sense or have to be burdened with the real life issue of having to THINK about and SOLVE your problems for a period of time. He will think that you are always just looking for instant solutions, which are not ideal in reality.

4. Being an Emotional Wreck -You cry a lot, then you are angry, then you are happy. Your emotions are all over the place, and at this rate you really can't control how you are going to react to anything... you just react. Men don't like to always have to deal with EMOTIONS. They know you are capable of logical thought and rational conversation. HOWEVER, if your approach to everything is always with EMOTIONS first, he will get sick and tired of having to deal with you, because he will find the experience to be just plain irrational and crazy depending on the severity of your emotional reactions.

3. Using Him and His Money -Some men will LET you use them, because they like to see you happy in the end, BUT at the same time they are evaluating you as being a user if you repeat this constantly. If you are always asking him to buy you things, give you money; or even if you are asking him for other favors all the time... he will see that you aren't giving any of the things to yourself ever and that you aren't even trying to give yourself those things. He will feel used and eventually will cut it off, because he wants you to stand on your own two feet.

2. Trying To Boss Him Around Or Control What He Should Want -He doesn't want to commit at this point and time in his life. But YOU think he is ready for that and should be doing it now, so you start telling him what he should be doing and start telling him what he should want. He will instantly feel like you are choking him with your bossiness and will run far away from you. He's a human being, not a slave!

1. Telling Him You Love Him and Expecting Him To Return It - So after practically putting him through hell, you expect him to tell you that he loves you when you tell him that you love him. Maybe it's your first time telling him, but either way, you shouldn't expect NOR pressure a man into feeling the EXACT same way about you as you do about him in the EXACT moment that you feel it. When a man wants to say it, he will, and if he feels it, he will say so if he wants to; if he is not saying it, it's probably because you are doing some of the above on a daily, if not weekly basis.



Playful Kiss

It has been awhile since i have penned down something about my thoughts...

I have been so busy with so many things.

Well...not that many things. This is just kind of an excuse that I am really addicted on somethings

that I can't just leave it like that.. (>_<)

Real reason is I have been hooked up with this

Supercalifragelisticexpialidocious Korean Drama titled

Playful Kiss (Jang Nan Seu Reon Ki Seu)

which took my time out of all my normal activities. LoL...

~ma bad!!!~

**Playful Kiss is about a popular and genius male student named

Baek Sueng-jo who has a stand-offish personality and

Oh Hani who is a female student who makes up for being not-so-genius

by always being smiling and happy.

It's a story of perseverance, honesty, and the never give up attitude

even if you fall down several times.

And the producer of this drama are the ones who made Princess Hours

and Boys Before Flowers in which SS501 Leader

Kim Hyun Joong a.k.a Baek Seung Jo or Yoon Ji ho

appears.

The only refreshing thing is Jung So Min (Oh Hani) the leading actress.

She's new in Korean Showbiz who debuts in Bad Boy.

What's interesting is their acting chemistry.

They really did it well....

Oh, it isn't really that bad since i gain a lot of things from this beautiful drama.

YouTube:

http://www.youtube.com/pr3xi3

I have joined youtube last june 30, 2010 but i never uploaded any videos which interests me so much. So i just kind of add friends and subscribed some interesting channels like 2ne1. Cuz i love their songs and oh, i like the way CL raps.

~the best female, Seoul city ever had~

Remember this line from their song Please don't go?

Yeah....ok let me continue. Lol....

I did uploaded the video lyrics of I love the way you lie by eminem and rihanna, and the trailer of Vampire Suck the movie.

But my channel that time was very quite. Kind of insignificant. Nobody cares. Nobody is interested with the videos in there. So i kinda lie low...

FaceBook:

http://www.facebook.com/playfulkissinternational

I have been here in facebook for about 2years now.

It's been more interesting now than 2years back where, i don't even know the people in my friends list.

Weird but it seems like i am alone in facebook during those times.

And the only game you can play was pets.

You choose a pet you like, a dog, a cat, where you have to feed everyday or ask your friends to feed your pet in case you can't come online. Boring right????

The biggest difference now is, there are so many applications and games that you can play.

And there are a lot more information's everywhere.

Then one day while i was playing the mafia wars, i saw the ads that says Playful Kiss.

So i don't know what's gotten into my brain and i just like the page.

I checked out the page i just liked and i read the postings on the wall saying a new drama starring the BOF guy Kim Hyun Joong.

It perks my interest up since i like this gorgeous fella from Boys Over Flowers.

So i went to mysoju.com as i have watched some Korean Drama from that site before.

And there it goes, they marked it hot. And so i start watching.

And i got hooked. From then on i will patiently wait for the new episodes to come out.

Since it is only aired in Korea on Wednesdays and Thursdays and it will be available online the next day.

Blogger:

http://prixiebaby.blogspot.com/

I have been in blogspot since like i don't know when, posted somethings that it's pretty interesting.

Then I posted Playful Kiss......

Oh i even designed it specially for Playful Kiss.

I install a chat room and everybody was like talking about playful kiss.

EPDRAMA:

http://www.epdrama.com/

I found this lovely site  which give a hard English subs for Playful Kiss.

Other sites like viikii.net doesn't offer hard subs for most Korean Dramas.

Then an idea hits me. Why not download the video parts and upload it in youtube.

So i just did it.

Downloaded the video parts, and uploaded it on youtube.

And in just one month my channel views reached 100k...

And the total upload view hits 1million.

Now it's just two months and it hits 5million views.

Though I have neglected some of my normal activities got messed up sometimes but it felt so fulfilling knowing that there are people out there who are happy because of what i did. 

I got hundreds of messages in youtube everyday and video comments saying THANK YOU for sharing this beautiful drama.

Though this drama had low ratings in Korea but it gains a lot of popularity online.

Netizens starts Google searching for any sites that offers full episodes for playful kiss.

Messages:

♥♥♥ Cynthia Sayo Rico 

October 16 at 10:31pm Report

it's so nice and i'm so happy to know that someone has upload PK at YT...and it you!!!!!!! thank you girl!!!! marami kang pinasaya....and hindi pinatulog, coz of watching this awesome show....but its worth it....anyway...when will ep11.5 and onwards coming out in your channel?,...please let us know..Thank you!!!!! Kabayan, ingat ka dyan!!!!^______*

♥♥♥ Sarah May Castro 

November 2 at 5:52pm Report

hi can u pls upload the part 14 on u tube?its hard for me to download it on ur blog.pls??

thank u so much for uploading those videos!! i really love it :)

♥♥♥ Farah Ain Samsudin 

November 21 at 2:55am Report

hi dear! just drop to say thanks a lot for uploadg the Playful kiss drama ;)

loveeeeeeeee it..

♥♥♥ Daphnie Daño Atillo 

November 29 at 11:03am Report

thanks a lot for uploading playful kiss in youtube .. 

God bless you always ..

♥♥♥ Jessica Salaño Galanza 

December 1 at 10:55pm Report

hi! tnx sa pag accept ng frnd request ko..

gusto ko lng mag thank you kc napanood ko yung kompletong episodes ng playful kiss..

^_^ tnx tlga.. hnd pa kc pinapalabas d2 sa pinas yun..

last nyt wala tlga akong tulog kc gusto mapanood ng tuloy-tuloy..

hnd ko na namalayan yung oras.. hehe.. super happy tlga ako! tnx to you!

♥♥♥ Ladybabes Siguis 

December 5 at 4:30pm Report

hi,.,.i love your blog,., how did you make it?.,.,

♥♥♥ Stephanie Yza 

October 20 at 11:27pm Report

hello po.i saw your blog. and salamat po sa link para sa video.

i just wanted to ask kung kailan lalabas un last 2 episode nang playfull kiss,

kasi po, excited po ako eh. haha.

salamat po talaga(=God Bless You Always.

xoxo, 

Steph

♥♥♥ DongHo Desiree Kiss 

October 19 at 8:28pm Report

hi :)when di ma complete ang episode sa playful kiss?

thanks for uploading PK.

♥♥♥ Momo Tsukiyomi 

hy,,thanks for konfirm,,i watch ur video on youtube,,

its playful kiss,,

i really like it,,,

11 hours ago

♥♥♥ Mart Andrea Villanueva ‎

~annyeong!!!

I'm used to visit your page to watch playful kiss

but it seems that special episodes are not working. .

and I'm badly addicted to it, could you

please help me find another videos that are english subbed?

thank you :))

♥♥♥ Sandrine Doan 

Hello, thank you for subbing Playful Kiss.

I love this drama ! ^^

♥♥♥ Maira' Khalid 

hey, thank you very much.

i'm sixteen and had filled my holiday

with this freakin cute playful kiss on youtube.

thanks for uploading it.

♥♥♥  프란세스바이킨

고마습니다 운니!! :))

♥♥♥ Daniela Villamil Gonzalez 

Hiii! :)Today I finished the special chapters and Baek Seung Jo's Diary,

I loved it!And the thing I liked most was at the beggining of the video when Seung Jo was possing!

Everything was soo cuteee!

Thanks a lot Prixie! ♥

♥♥♥ Daniela Villamil Gonzalez 

I think we are all really thankful to you for spending your time sharing the good things you know with us!Even if not everybody says it I'm sure there are lots of people having a good time thanks to you.Glad to be your friend too Prixie :)And hoping we continue talking and enjoying good Korean Drama together!

♥♥♥ Daniela Villamil Gonzalez 

‎:)And I also wanted to thank you for uploading Playful Kiss!It was the first time I saw Kim Hyun Joong and I love hiiim! ♥You are awsome!I hope you upload more dramas.. I haven't watched a Korean Drama before and I watched this one because it is based on a manga that I love, but it seems that Korean drama is pretty good so if you upload more I will watch them!Thanks a lot!

November 18 at 7:05am

♥♥♥ Ariane Templet 

thank you for the add! It means a lot what you did so we can watch playful kiss :)

♥♥♥ Khim Lumarlan 

hello :D you're Filipino right? ^^thanks for uploading playful kiss.

LOVE YOUR BLOG! ♥

♥♥♥ Ging Pillado 

thanks for uploading videos of mischievous kiss...:) salamat...

November 15 at 9:56am

♥♥♥ Batrisyia Jazmyna 

Yes, I am~! and you're welcome :)

Ouhh, I really love your blog..its perfect!

November 14 at 9:49pm 

These are just some of the messages i have received.

There are a lot more on my inbox's  but i don't think i have enough space for it.

and thanks to Eznyy from Malaysia who mentioned me in her beautiful blog/note.

http://www.facebook.com/note.php?note_id=161553087213873

To everyone who followed me in my blog, added me as a friend here on facebook,

followed me on twitter, subscribed on my Youtube Channel.

A million thanks.

당신은 매우 감사(gamsahabnida)

It's my pleasure to bring that smile on your faces.

More Korean Drama to come.

~hwaitiiiiiiiiiiing!!!!!~

당신을 사랑합니다!!!

(dangsin-eul salanghabnida)

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