Monday, February 28, 2011

Letting GO..

It's often hard to forget someone we love....
Because deep inside, it's the last thing that we want to do.
It is easy to say, but it's always difficult to let go of something so precious to us.
When someone becomes part of us, that person gets a little piece of our life
that's never easy to fill with just anyone else.
That is the reason why it is always painful to let go of our feelings for that certain person.
What's sad about love?
It's when you happen to know that there's just no hope for you being together.
Yet you still hope and pray that something good might happen for both of you one day.
It's when your mind says Let go.... But your heart says Hold on....
If you want to move on, then you have to leave the past behind.
He/She can never be yours.
You simply have to accept that reality.
If you keep hoping for the things that could have been yours,
then you will forever be a prisoner of your own dreams.
You will never find true happiness because you are detached from reality.
We should remember that when we love, never stick to only what our heart feels.
Sometimes, using our brain is a necessity.
Why do some people choose to love a cheater rather than a good one?
Why do we always believe they're good when they're not?
Because in Love....
You can't see the bad reality of things unless you get hurt by them.
You'll suddenly realized how bad that person is.
That's the pathetic part of being in love.
Sometimes, even the worst person in the world can be the best person for your own belief.
It is not wrong to love, but....
The problem with loving too much is not the fact the one you love doesn't give a damn
or doesn't love you as much as you do,
but it is the question that will forever hurt you every time you ask:
"Where do I failed? " D
We read quotes everywhere, friends told us that
When we love...we shouldn't give everything.
We must leave something for ourselves, so that when the relationship ended
it won't hurt so much that all we have to do is cry.
It is easy to say..but once you're already in that kind of situation,
you won't notice what you have done to the person.
The only thing you care about is you're happy with that person.
Until the day when everything fails you realized nothing's left for you to hold.Love is a game....Sometimes, we miss and get hurt.
But that doesn't keep us from taking the chance again.Yes, it is hard to accept that the person whom you think can
give you all the definition of happiness have to go.
But you can't change the past.We can't go back and manipulate things to the way we want it to happen.Because life would be meaningless and boring if we get all the things we want.But we can change the future and that's a beautiful thing about life.We all make mistakes, and we will have bad days, but as long as we let our past go
we will have a beautiful and bright future ahead of us.
Knowing that each day, we will learn something so that we keep growing to be 
a better person.
Life is like a rope, twined in all it's complexities and yet weave into one marvelous 
stream, that we have the chance to use something from.
Letting go is about learning that we have a choice.
We can choose to be hopeful rather than hopeless.
We can choose to act from faith rather than react from fear.
And we can choose to enjoy life rather than merely survive it.
There's no right or wrong when one choose to be happy.
it's just a battle between one's own happiness and the judgement of others.
As time goes by, life has a way of rearranging itself.
People enter your life, and inevitably, they leave as well.
Things have a tendency to happen that can turn our world upside down.
We’ll come to realize eventually, that even though things are different, we are as well.
Sometimes, no matter how much faith we have, we lose people.
But we never forget them.
And sometimes, it's those memories that give us the strength to go on.

Confusing..

This world is so confusing....
You're waiting for the one you Love....
When the one who Loves you is waiting for you.
But here's much more confusing than that.
He Loves you,You Love him,
but for some reason fate doesn't allow both you to be together.
Why is it that when you Love....
You look like a fool?
Is it because you became wrong, when you're already right?
Is it because you became frail, when to think, you're very strong?
Is it a because you give everything without asking anything in return?
Or is it because you're happy even when you're hurt?
Love can give you much pain....Can make you cry....
And can even destroy your life....
But why do we still want to be in-love?
Which is harder?
Teaching yourself to love the person who loves you?
Or forcing the one you love to love you?
Love can never be wrong.....
Sometimes, we blame the situation or even the person.
But no matter who we blame,if it really isn't meant for us....
It just wouldn't be.

WE SHOULD:
....never expect,
....never demand,
....never assume.
WE SHOULD KNOW:
....our limits where we stand our role.
DON'T:
....get affected,
....get jealous,
....get paranoid.
WE'LL JUST:
Go with the flow and stay happy.

Love Is....



Love is something which cannot be overuled nor enslaved...
nor dictated or mandated.. insisted nor begged or obliged and required...
None can make it follow or disobey one's rule...
For, love itself is its master and its slave.... 
Love says: "Don't tell me when or who or how to love...
for, it is me who holds your heart..
I give your heart a beat that you may breathe..
I give your heart the song that you may hear music...
and I give you love, myself... that you may smile...and live..! "
Love gives life its meaning ..
significance to one's being ....and worth / sense for living....

Love never gives a guarantee of permanence.
But it always gives hope.
Love doesn't promise forever, 
but it gives us faith to believe.
Love makes us cry,
but the tears that it brings can breathe a new life,
a new beginning and a new hope to those who believe....
Love isn't love until you give away. 
But love will only have life 
when it is shared by two people who believe in its meaning, 
by people who share one goal, one commitment, 
and by people who are selflessly loyal to each other.

Sometimes, things are not what they seem to be...
Oftentimes, we regard something as it is, merely based on our own perception,
way of thinking and understanding failing to realise that every spoken word may have different meanings...
every shown gestures may signify differently and every message may have different sense / interpretation.
More often that not... we face disappointments because we perceive things the way they shouldn't be...
interpret words wrongly.... Sad to say the fact that sometimes,
we fail to see the truth that lies deep in one's heart, .... 
When I say blue, it doesn't mean a hue...
If I say I like orange I may not mean the fruit...
and when I say I love Thee... it doesn't mean...
a You or a He must spare some love for me....!

I was never one to patiently pick up broken fragments and glue them together again
and tell myself that the mended whole was as good as new,
What is broken is broken - and I'd rather remember it as it was at its best than mend it
and see the broken places as long as I lived..!!
We enjoy warmth because we been cold..
We appreciate light because we been in darkness..
By the same token, we can experience joy because we have known sadness....!!
Life at least, allows us to live...
experience existence that we need...
at times, it's really tough but at least we have some times to laugh...
we make mistakes that enable us to learn... and live a life full of memories...
sometimes, good .. at times bad but not as bad as not having them ....